In today's digital age, it's easy to fall into the belief that finding a decent guy is a near-impossible task. But before we write off the entire male population, let's consider the factors at play.
Tolong jawabkan. Saya ada jawapan saya nanti saya kongsi. pic.twitter.com/rIwG3068E7
— Abudi Alsagoff (@AbudiAlsagoff) June 10, 2023
Could it be that our online experiences or the influence of our social circles have skewed our perceptions? Perhaps it's time to broaden our horizons and discover the hidden gems among men.
Recently, an anonymous user took to Twitter to pose an intriguing question: Are there any Malaysian men left who are still virgins and have never cheated on their partners?
This thought-provoking query sparked a lively discussion among netizens, with various individuals chiming in to share their perspectives.
Kalau nak lelaki yang baik cari laki yang nerd kot tapi tulah perempuan sekarang mostly nak yang badboy. So korang dapat lah apa yang korang nak
— Ayied (@zhaahir_ayied) June 10, 2023
If you're seeking a genuinely good-hearted guy, why not explore the realm of the nerds? Embrace their quirks, their passions, and their intellectual pursuits. Contrary to popular belief, many women nowadays seem to be drawn towards the allure of the "bad boy" persona.
Ramai je. Tp tak kena taste kau pulak nnti. Nak badboy la. Sweet mcm dlm drama la. Nak boleh provide A-Z la. Tak ke pantek tu
— Muhammad Noorain (@Street69War) June 10, 2023
Cari bf pn kt kelab kt tinder. Mmg jumpa spesis fakboi jela. Cuba try join geng usrah ke ahli jawatan kuasa kariah masjid ke. Byk je lelaki yg suci2 lagi. Jgn kata awek, lisa blackpink pn dorg ad yg x kenal tau. Tp tu lah, tak kena taste kau lah plak ye dok.
— Docawe (@Docawe) June 11, 2023
Searching for a boyfriend? You can try finding one at clubs or on Tinder. You might encounter the infamous "f**kboy" type though. Alternatively, consider joining religious groups or becoming an active member of the mosque committee. There are plenty of genuinely righteous men out there. And don't think it's only women who encounter such men; even Lisa from BLACKPINK knows they exist. But, it ultimately depends on your personal preferences.
Most guys out there are actually pretty decent.
— GUMIHO (@OrangGajiDokter) June 11, 2023
But if you've reached the mindset that "ada ke lelaki yang masih teruna..." it's either you've been in the internet for too long or you just have a terrible circle of friends.
Dik.. Not All lelaki yg kenal dunia tu dah berzina. Dan tak semua yg moden tu Kemaruk Betina. Jika nak letak lelaki mcm tu, kamu kena juga letak perempuan ditempat sama. Sebab tanpa perempuan Penzina, takda lelaki penzina.
— Ragum Besi (@arbeeZONE) June 11, 2023
Yet, it's important to acknowledge that personal tastes and preferences vary. What appeals to one person may not resonate with another. However, it's crucial not to lose hope. Good men do exist. Maintain a positive mindset, focus on self-improvement, and trust that the Almighty knows what's best for His servants.
Rumit soalan ni. Tapi syurga kan utk pendosa yang dah bertaubat? Namun ini bukanlah tiket utk berbuat dosa. Cuma nak cakap janganlah pernah berputus asa dari rahmat Allah. Sedangkan ada 2 orang yang baik pun boleh bercerai inikan pula pendosa. Maka doa2 lah yang baik.
— Sucre (@OneHunnidK) June 10, 2023
Teruskan jaga diri kerana Allah. Minta Allah jaga cik dan pasangan/keluarga. Xyah duk risau fikir sgt lelaki tu masih teruna ke x.
— Ady Kent (@ady_kent) June 10, 2023
Kami lelaki ni, susah utk cik nak check periksa sama ada masih teruna lg ke x. Setahu saya, xde proven clinical virginity test utk lelaki
In this journey to find virtuous men, let's debunk stereotypes, challenge our own biases, and keep an open mind. By doing so, we may discover that the path to true companionship lies in seeking the goodness within ourselves and embracing the possibility of finding a reflection of our own virtues.