Don't wait till you're friend-zoned! If you're still in the 'just talking' phase, flirt your way into your dream relationship with 5 tricks, from relationship expert, Dr Kimberly Moffit!
1- Ask them for a favour
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You can ask them to lend you notes, grab you a drink or even, a solution to your car problems.
It might be a little odd cause' you want to get in their good books, not vice versa.
But actually, when someone puts in effort into something, they are already emotionally invested. And, it makes them feel great that you need them!
So, congrats, you've now got yourself a guardian angel.
2- Don't approach from behind
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Guess who sneaks up on people? Yup, a creepy stalker! If they already know that you got the hots for them, it will seem like you've been watching them for hours.
Instead, stay in their line of sight. I mean, how are they supposed to fall for you if you're in a dark corner somewhere?
So, hang out a few rows from them & talk to someone like you're having a really good time. Even better if you actually are! They might decide to join in the fun some time soon.
3- Stick with your 'lenglui'/'lengchai' friends
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They call this the 'Cheerleader Effect'. Next time, you're at a club, party or a gathering, hang out close to your handsome/pretty friends. They should have a similar stature, build or nature to you.
Boom! All of you will look attractive almost instantly!
It's like how the 7 colours of the rainbow look good on its own. But, put them together & see how many people are in love.
This hack works in pictures too! So, post more selfies with your gorgeous friends on Insta.
4- Connect on two or more socials
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This goes well with MCO 2.0 now, especially if you can't meet them much. Make sure to carry everyday interaction with them on more than one social media platforms.
It can be you're gaming together on Discord while commenting on each other's Insta post. Or, you've sent them a funny Snap & now, replying to his tweet.
The double interaction won't feel like an 'overkill' as long as you skip the online flirting. Play it cool, even if they flirt back.
5- Make them miss you
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It's quite sly, but if it works, then why not? Everyone indulge in something more if it's their own idea, rather than someone else's.
So, don't let them know that they are the target. But, do this:
- Ask about their friends' names & get to know them. If can, talk to them too.
- Never be too forward especially in the first conversation.
- This one's mean but duck out when the vibe's getting good. They'll miss you when you're gone.
- Be your fun self. Don't get too nervous or hung up around them.
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