Let me first clarify, Single is good, there is nothing wrong with being single. But if you're looking for a partner or wondering why there are no boys chasing you, then you might need to check whether you have done these 5 things before:
1. You Always Complain And Criticize
Are you always complain and criticize about the things in your life? Life is imperfect and things don’t always happen in the way we want, but it doesn’t mean you can complain about it. Boys don't like girls who complain, because the boys will think they are annoying and mean.
Hence, think about the topic you will be talking about before you talk to someone next time. If you don't have something good to say, then put a clamp on it and don't talk. Learn to praise other people, and maybe the guys will begin coming around you.
2. You Are Not Hygienic
If you do not maintain your hygiene, then boys' impression of you will be severely affected. Imagine if you meet someone who has scuzzy teeth and bad breath, what will you think of him/ her?
You don't need to carry disinfection products everywhere to keep yourself clean, you just need to make sure you perform hygienic behaviours.
For example, making sure you brush your teeth two to three times a day. Besides, you can use breath mints for bad breath problems. Remember to cut your fingernails and bring along a deodorant that works for your body chemistry. Wearing clean clothes is also important in building a good impression of yourself.
3. You Talk About Your Past Relationships
In the dating game, single people are sceptical of anyone who is still whining about an ex. If you still talk about your ex, you might scare the boys all away, because it means that you haven't completely let go of your ex and you are not ready to enter a new relationship. Always keep in mind that an ex is an ex.
4. You Are Too Quiet
When you go out with your friends and there are some new guys there, but you just sit down, order a drink, stay quiet, and listen to their conversation.
Do you think you can find your one and the only one? You never made an attempt to talk to any of the new guys, and, you were making yourself invisible.
You may think that boys should take the initiative to talk to you, but if you are too quiet, it will make others think you are very unapproachable.
Hence, remember to make an effort to talk to other people when you meet with your friends and new guys next time.
If you are normally quieter, you can also ask friends to help introduce others to you.
5. You Do Not Smile
Boys usually think that girls who laugh are particularly attractive and friendly. If you constantly look stress and put on a frown on your face, you are indirectly sending out the signal that you are not approachable, and the men will lose interest to talk to you.
Give yourself reasons to be happy and develop the habit of smiling by thinking of the good times in the past or daydreaming about a happy future. You can also set small and achievable daily goals for yourself. After completing a daily goal, take the time to feel the happiness.