The prevalence of infidelity and marital problems circulating online this year is astounding. Where has the essence of chivalrous and loyal relationships gone?
In an anonymous post, a local woman shared the heart-wrenching experience of discovering her husband engaged in intimate relations with a woman who is a mother of three, not once but twice in his car.
Despite this betrayal, the woman proceeded with the wedding because she still loves him, and her fiancé promised to change. There were moments when she contemplated cancelling the wedding, but he persistently urged her not to.
In response, she made a condition for marriage: he had to agree to listen to whatever she said, and he complied. Explaining her decision on why she went along with the marriage, she stated, "I was with him for 8 years, and in those years, he had done a lot of things for me, so, of course, I still love him."
The woman acknowledged the difficulty of letting go of long-term love and revealed that, after marriage, her husband underwent significant changes. She conducted a test, asking him for RM1k every month, which he willingly provided without complaints. Despite having money, he never requested any from her.
According to her, his outings were limited to badminton or futsal nights, and when he returned early from work, he prioritized spending time with her, claiming she was always his priority. However, despite these positive changes, the woman struggles with haunting thoughts of her husband's past indiscretions.
She cannot shake the mental images, causing internal turmoil. Unwilling to share these concerns with friends to avoid airing her husband's dirty laundry, she seeks anonymous advice from strangers.
She wonders what other women would do in her situation divorce would be the best course of action. What are your thoughts?