Just like a sour romance, it isn't always sunny in the Friendship-ville too. Think about it: have you ever had a particularly draining friendship that somehow played a part in your mental health?
Truth be told, not all "besties" mean well. And while you think it's better to have a big circle of friends, there's no harm in cutting off a toxic friendship (or two).
Here's where you can draw the line:
1- Where Were They When You Needed Them the Most?
Toxic individuals have a prolonged pattern of not being the greatest support system. Sure it's understandable for friends to be emotionally unavailable due to priorities or personal issues, but the toxic ones are ALWAYS out of sight, out of mind whenever you need a shoulder to cry on.
If it's you who's always giving, giving AND giving, chances are you need better friends.
2- There's Always Drama
You're not one to stir drama, but they sure are. They thrive on any sorts of chaos or argument, even the petty ones.
3- Your Boundary Isn't Respected
They play around with your emotions like a badge of honor. Just because you're besties, that doesn't mean your boundaries can be crossed.
4- They're Too Egoistic to Admit They're Wrong
No one's perfect, but that doesn't mean we can't own up to our mistakes.
Toxic friends tend to view themselves as "always right". Even if you call them out for having unacceptable action or behaviour, they're not ones to easily apologize.
5- Jealousy > Sincerity
Instead of hyping you up for making good choices, they choose to put you down within seconds. Be it your love life or choice of fashion, you always get the "stare-downs" from them.