Many men have a virginity complex, believing that their significant other must "guard their chastity" for them.

A Muslim man in Malaysia expressed that his girlfriend had already lost her virginity and had slept with 15 men in the past, including himself. However, he couldn't let go of his girlfriend's "dark history." After anonymously posting his concerns on the Twitter account "TwtWedding," he unexpectedly faced a barrage of criticism from netizens.

He Was The "15th Man"

The man said that he had been in a relationship with his girlfriend for almost a year and they were at the stage of discussing marriage. His girlfriend was a non-Muslim but didn't mind converting for him.

Despite their smooth relationship, he couldn't get over the fact that his girlfriend had previously engaged in sexual relations with 15 men, and he was the "15th man." He even started having second thoughts about the relationship.

A 'Broken' Girlfriend

"The woman I know is actually 'broken' (rosak), meaning she has a dark past."

"At first, I could accept everything. Honestly, I was a 'pure' person before I met her and hadn't engaged in sexual activities with women."

She is an "open-minded" person and admitted to having slept with 15 men, including me."

He said that after "sleeping" with his girlfriend, he felt responsible for her and was prepared to marry her and change her.

Girlfriend's Unfortunate Childhood

He mentioned that his girlfriend had confessed to various childhood misfortunes, including sexual harassment, being harassed and becoming a victim of rape. She also came from a troubled family where her father abandoned her mother, leading to her mother suffering from depression.

Girlfriend's Effort, Boyfriend's Dilemma

He also pointed out that his girlfriend had changed a lot after meeting him, including cutting off contact with those men from her past and even trying to gain a deeper understanding of Islam and fasting. However, the man still worried that she might "return to her previous state" and have extramarital affairs after marriage.

He felt conflicted and these unsettling thoughts kept popping up in his mind. Finally, he admitted that he had been cheated on by a previous partner, making it difficult for him to trust others.

Therefore, he sought the opinions of netizens on whether he should continue dating his girlfriend or break up with her.

"What's the difference between you and the previous 14 men?"

The man's post immediately sparked criticism from netizens, who found him ironic. They said that he called his girlfriend a "broken woman" while he himself was one of the people who "ruined" her, only suddenly caring about her sexual history and past after sleeping with her. They criticized him, saying, "What's the difference between you and other people who took advantage of her?"

Netizens also expressed sympathy for his girlfriend, thinking that she had found a good man but ended up being secretly disliked. They believed she deserved a better man.

Having benefited from her "goods," and now complaining? What are your thoughts on this matter? Let's discuss it!