The audacity of offering advice on being a homewrecker, huh?
Recently, an anonymous individual shared tips that have stirred frustration among netizens. The anon detailed the moment she met her husband, who was already married with one child. At the time of their introduction, his wife was pregnant with their second child. The woman worked at the same place as her husband, and according to her, he was in a long-distance relationship with his wife living in Pahang.
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"To summarise, we fell in love and wanted to get married. The first wife didn't even allow him to come to see me and expressed her disapproval. But I ignored all that; I endured because I sought her blessing." Furthermore, the first wife even contacted this woman's parents seeking advice on persuading her to leave her husband.
"My parents didn't say anything, just asked her to be patient. In the end, I got married elsewhere because the first wife still disagreed."
However, after they returned to Malaysia, the anon became pregnant, and one day she received a call from the first wife through their husband.
"I was scared because I was pregnant, afraid she would scold me, and my emotions were unstable. That night, the night of Nisfu Syaaban, she called me. My husband had advised, that if she scolded, just end the call and not argue back."
Unexpectedly, the first wife asked this anon to reconcile. The anon felt touched and moved because, for years, she had prayed to obtain the first wife's blessing.
"I asked why she wanted to reconcile; she said because she also prayed to Allah to open her heart to accept me and because I never spoke ill of her, never confronted her."
She explained that they faced various challenges, including becoming viral, but she remained silent because she knew she was wrong. After their reconciliation, this woman and the first wife are now good friends, and the first wife's children treat her like their own. Based on her experiences, the anon advises any woman who falls in love with a married man not to lose hope and to pray.
However, she emphasizes that this sharing is not meant to encourage women to become homewreckers but is for those who have already fallen in love with a married man and cannot gain his wife's approval. This sharing has gone viral, and many netizens are expressing frustration after reading it, with some criticizing the audacity of homewreckers and expressing a wish that the first wife had dealt with the situation more assertively.
