Many of us have a habit of telling others about our lives. You may want to share your life with others, but not everyone has sincere intentions in their hearts to know more about you.
In some kind of circumstances, exposing too much of yourself could put you in danger. Let's take a quick look at the list of personal information that should not be shared with others.
1. Past Grudges
All of us has some unhappy past experiences or the people we dislike. However, it doesn't mean that you should tell everyone about these resentful emotions. Sharing negative emotions can affect others and makes them feel heavy in their hearts too.
Everyone likes to talk about positive topics, especially those with interesting insights. Hence, try to focus on your current life and don’t always focus on things that have happened previously when you are interacting with others.
2. Your Possessions
Many people measure their quality of life by the value of the items they possess, such as to show off that they have just bought a new car, a new mobile phone or house. Always telling others what you have will only make you look arrogant. Always remember that being humble can make the interaction more comfortable with others.
3. Your Goals
When you kept showing off on your goals, you might lack the motivation to reach it overtime. If you keep your goals in your heart, you have a greater chance of achieving them. If you want to share your goals with others, the best way is to show them after you have reached them.
4. Financial status
Telling people the details of your income is like you are showing off to them is a big no, sensitive topic like money and personal finances often will affect your relationship with the others. Besides, sharing your financial information with others could put you in a dangerous situation because you don't know what their intentions are.
5. Good Deeds
Doing good deeds is a good thing, but it will be a completely different if you just focus on yourself and brag about the good things you have done.
This is why many successful people will not tell others about their kind deeds. When you do a good thing, you should take your attention away from yourself.
6. Your Beliefs
Everyone has their own beliefs. No matter what you believe in, don't force others to agree with you.
You have what you think is the right way, but it might not apply to others. Believe in your own ideas for your own life.
7. Family Issues
The problems in the family should stay in your own family, and you should not tell unrelated people about these problems.
Telling others about your family problems will only give them a chance to threaten you because you don't know what other people's intentions are.
Besides, sharing your family secrets with others could destroy the trust between your family and you irreversibly.
"If you reveal your secrets to the wind, you should not blame the wind for revealing them to the trees." - Khalil Gibman