Sure, talking about sex can be awkward. However, there‘s a level of intimacy in every relationship that can only be achieved when you two are completely transparent with each other about how you’d like to be pleased in bed. So, don‘t be shy! Conversations like this are important, especially as a way to spice things up, and at the end of it, you’ll get to discover things that you probably never would have guessed about your partner. Fun, right? 

So let's get to the questions, shall we? 

For when you're feeling flirty:

1. "What makes sex amazing for you?"

2. "What's one of your favorite sexual fantasies?" 

3. "What would an erotic vacation look like for you?"

4. "What's something you've always wanted to ask me to try—but assumed I wouldn't like?"

5. “What would you do if we were alone together?”

6. "What would you like me to wear to bed tonight?"

7. "Would you like to use one of these vibrators on me?" Send a link to your favorite selections.

8. "Do you have a favorite sexual memory of us?"

9. "If you could choose what I was wearing right now, what would you choose?"

10. "Do you think you could take off my underwear with no hands?"

11. "If I ever caught you masturbating, would you stop or would you finish?"

12. "What’s a surefire way to turn you on?"

13. "What was it like the first time you had sex?"

14. "Which parts of your body do you like to have kissed?"

15. "Do you like receiving nudes at work?"

16. "What part of my body turns you on the most?"

For when you're feeling dirty:

1. "What’s the naughtiest thing you’ve sexted?"

2. "Would you like to be woken up with oral?"

3. "Would you ever tie me up or want to be tied up?"

4. "Do you like getting your hair pulled during sex?"

5. "Do you like it when I talk dirty to you?"

6. "Do you want to try anal?"

7. "Do you like incorporating food while having sex?"

8. "What type of porn turns you on?"

9. "Do you like being choked during sex?"

10. "How can I make your biggest sexual fantasy come true?"

11. "Do you usually like having rough or gentle sex?"

12. "Would you ever want to try pegging?"

13. "How do you like your breasts and nipples played with?"

14. "Do you like getting erotic massages?"

15. "What are your favorite sex positions?

16. "What's something you've seen in porn that you've always wanted to try in real life?"