Trying out different methods to enjoy sex is one of the best ways couples or sexual partners can do to keep the spark going. Doing the same tricks over and over will, over time, affect one‘s sexual drive due to the lack of excitement. We don‘t want that, do we?

If you’re in the mood to spice up your sex life, these kinky sex ideas might just do the trick. 

1. Look To Your Kitchen For Inspiration

Who says you can't play with food? Take whipped cream or a tub of Nutella and smear it on whichever part of your partner's body you wish to devour and let your tongue do the magic. 

2. Please Yourself In Front Of Your Partner

This pre-sex action is guaranteed to shoot your partner's sexual boost up the roof if they're into it. Just get into a comfy position and never break eye contact. 

3. Show Em The Ropes

Pretty classic move as far as light BDSM goes, but exciting nonetheless. Have your partner tie you up or vice versa and surrender (with consent). 

4. A Little Pampering Wouldn't Hurt

In other words: naked massage. Instead of getting right into it, initiate a relaxing ambience by starting off with a gentle massage, and then lead from there— the possibilities are endless.

5. Two words: Blindfolds And Massage Candles

Nothing beats the heightened anticipation of not knowing what will happen as they explore your body. Having one of your main senses covered might sound intimidating, but sex with blindfolds can be impossibly thrilling as long as you trust your partner. If you want to take it up a notch, drip a massage candle all over them— don't worry, they're special candles so it doesn't hurt. 

If you want to participate in these kinky ideas but are separated by miles from your partner, try these long distance-friendly sexual tips. If you need help in initiating dirty talks, this list of kinky questions could help you get started. Or if you have some questions regarding sex that you're too shy to ask, we probably have the answers right here.