In an attempt to be happy, fit in and be accepted (despite how unimportant that is), it is also learning to work on ourselves, so that we are satisfied with who we are. 

Understanding others and doing our best to be good people is important, but there are also 6 other aspects we need to focus on, for the sake of our own peace of mind. 

Here they are. 

1. To love yourself and accept your flaws

You don't measure up to society's standards of beauty, and that is OKAY. Just because people say this is what beauty is, it doesn't mean it's the truth. You do you boo. 

2. To believe you're worthy

No, we are dead serious. You deserve the world and so much more. No one, we repeat, NO ONE, should have the power to tell or make you feel otherwise. 

3. To saying no with confidence

You don't have to live your life pleasing everyone. When something makes you unhappy, say no with your head held high, and walk away. It is your life, everyone else should go suck it. 

4. To forgiving yourself

For the one millionth time, you are HUMAN. You can make mistakes, you can fall down, you can disappoint. So long as you get back up, and attempt to be a better you tomorrow. 

5. To removing toxicity 

If that boy is gaslighting you, then honey show him the door. You shouldn't be giving your time and energy to relationships and friendships, which only weigh you down. Get moving, there are 8 billion people out there. 

6. To not doubting yourself

You're only as small as you tell yourself you are. You wanna be the next Jeff Bezos? Go right ahead and do it. Sitting and doubting yourself certainly won't get you there. 

There you have it. 6 simple things you need to fix about you, today, tomorrow and every day henceforth. So, GET.