There will not be any promise that can exempt you from all the pain you endure in love. Love is a lesson, and we cannot predict the number of failed relationships before we meet the right person. However, we can get the following 4 insights from every failed love relationship.
1. Be Grateful
After the breakup, some people will have resentment in their hearts. In fact, it is more important to reflect on the issue(s) of the relationship! Crisis and rifts in the relationship are often caused by both parties, and they have to bear full responsibility together.
2. You Are Not The Only One Who Bears Grief
Many people think that the party who proposes to break up is a sinner, while the other party is a pity person. In fact, both sides have given their feelings, maybe the party who proposes to break up is crying silently too.
3. People Who Can Give You Happiness Can Give You Sadness Too
Your partner can bring you happiness and sadness. As a girl, don't be afraid to entrust your happiness. Remember to build up your interests and skills, and cultivate the ability to give yourself happiness.
4. No Need To Force Yourself To Forget Someone
You may want to delete or throw away those things such as the love letters, the Whatapps messages, and the selfies between you and your ex when the relationship is ended. However, no one can actually delete memories at will. These things are actually parts of your life experience.
