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Psychology Tricks | What To Do When 'His' Family Hates You

29-Aug-2021
By m7py

Can't seem to get your partner's family to love you? Or, even approve your relationship? 

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Source: The Mirror


Well, all it takes is to play a little mind game with them. And, you'll have them wrapped around your fingers in no time!


1- Use nouns, instead of verbs when speaking

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When you use nouns, you can convince someone better to do something. For example, instead of saying, "Please let us date?", try "Please give us your permission to date?"


2- Thank them randomly

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Source: First Cry Parenting

Find little things to thank them for. Of course, don't do it too often, or you'll sound like you're sucking up to them. 


3- Name your future kids after them

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Honor your significant others' family members by giving your kids their names. Your kids will automatically become their favorites. 


4- Ask them to tell you family stories

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Source: Christianity Malaysia

They would appreciate your interest in their family. Plus, you wouldn't be left out of the conversation whenever these stories come up in the future. 


5- Thank them for their criticisms

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Source: Brides


It will show them that you're not sensitive & can take feedbacks well. Ask them what experiences led them to their opinions. You'll make them feel smart. 


So, try these tricks & see how your partner's family will adore you to bits! 

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Thank you for reading!

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