Ladies, is your man an actual gentleman, or is it all a game of pretend? Check if he showcases these subtle traits of a true gentleman and you won't be fooled. It's all in his actions!
1- He opens the car door for anyone (including his male friends!)
2- He calls or messages to say 'Good Night' if you're living apart.
3- He does his own laundry. Yes, that means folding the washing too!
4- He takes care of you in the sheets. (wink wink!)
5- He stands when you approach or leave the table.
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6- He allows you to order first- and doesn't rush you if you aren't ready.
7- He is willing to open up & share some secrets.
8- He forgives others & doesn't hold grudges.
9- He walks on the street side of the curb.
10- He trims his nails & nose hair regularly.
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11- He replies to his Mom ASAP & doesn't ignore her.
12- He sends flowers for no particular reason.
13- He doesn't compare your cooking to his Mom's or sister's.
14- He spends time with your family.
15- He always asks for your consent before sexual engagements. (IMPORTANT!)
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16- He doesn't judge your paycheck.
17- He cooks- or attempts to nail your favorite dish.
18- He is patient and kind with the waiters/waitresses.
19- He doesn't force any dress codes onto you.
20- He lets you decide the number of kids you'll have. (It's your body, ladies!)
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21- He draws the line with his girl best friend(s).
22- He gets along with your besties. (Or, at least try!)
23- He takes initiative to plan dates with you.
24- He texts or calls first- and doesn't just wait till you do.
25- He doesn't share intimate details about you with his buddies.
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26-He puts his phone away when you're speaking.
27- He offers you the best seat -at the restaurant, on the plane, in the cinema, etc.
28- He doesn't blast music/videos in public spaces.
29- He doesn't take calls in the cinema when a movie is playing.
30- He takes off his sunglasses indoors and at night.
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31- He doesn't give unsolicited style advice.
32- He is familiar with dress codes and dresses up accordingly.
33- He wipes down equipment in the gym after using them.
34- He doesn't stare at any women creepily.
35- He doesn't ask to check your texts or call history.
So, there you go. While your man doesn't necessarily have to master all of these traits, make sure he is at least nice and sweet to you. You deserve the best, sisters!
