Spending time by yourself would often be seen as a sign of weakness without any reason to. But it is actually a very powerful action, and it also shows that you have respect for yourself and tend to your needs and wants as well.
Be it travelling, shopping or having a meal on one's own, it does not necessarily mean that the person has no friends or is a lonely person, it just means that his or her way of living is different than ours.
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It is important that we spend time with ourselves and check in with our feelings and emotions every now and then. Because at the end of the day, we will only have ourselves to rely upon. Thus, it is actually up to ourselves to give us the joy and happiness we deserve in life.
Here are 6 ways to spend your me-time that can bring more meaning into your life.
[ 01 | Enjoy A Meal Alone ]
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Have you ever wanted to dine in at a nice cafe or restaurant but there is no one there to accompany you? It is perfectly okay if you wish to have a meal there all on your own. Look on the bright side, you get to order your favourite food and desserts. Even if it is the unique dish that your friends call it weird, you get to enjoy it without anybody's judgement. Besides that, eating alone can also allow you the peace you need from your everyday life to unwind and gain mental clarity while enjoying yourself.
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[ 02 | Glow Up For Yourself ]
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"Glow up" has been a popular term to describe positive changes to oneself, whether internally or externally. These days, many girls love to wear makeup and dress beautifully to enhance their beauty. You can too. It is a skill that is needed to be learnt as you slowly step out into society where, unfortunately, you will often be judged for physical appearance. Start with learning to wear basic makeup and put together an outfit that suits you comfortably. It is magic when those skills are mastered. Not only it increases your self-confidence, but it also attracts others around you as well, thus making an impact on your social circle.
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[ 03 | Cosy Reading Time ]
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Alone time is one of the best times to pick up a book. This is because you will be undisturbed and be able to concentrate in peace. Reading is a good habit that widens your vocabulary and enhances your creative thinking. Furthermore, reading can help you destress. By reading a fictional book, your mind will be taken to an imaginative world where you escape from the real world for a brief moment. Be it a novel or an article, reading can bring little moments of joy that you never knew you needed.
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[ 04 | Cook On Your Own ]
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Cooking is actually a very fun and satisfying activity to do on your own. Be it after class or after work, stock up some fresh groceries at a nearby supermarket, and you can make your own dinner. Eating homecooked food not only saves money from takeouts but it is also a healthier food option that puts essential nutrients into your body. Taking the time to watch cooking videos and learning new recipes can be a fun addition to life too.
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[ 05 | Take Yourself On A Shopping Date ]
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Having a shopping date with yourself can be very therapeutic. You are able to release the stress off your chest as you take a walk at the mall with the company of yourself. You will feel a sense of freedom as you buy the things you like without having anybody there to judge your choices. You can also choose to enjoy a nice cup of coffee at a cafe when you get tired or choose to go home. Everything is up to you. You can shop for as long as you like while enjoying your personal space with peace.
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[ 06 | Be Your Own Travel Buddy ]
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Besides being an awesome way to have fun and relax, travelling allows you to see the world from another perspective as you meet new people along the way. Travelling is also a great opportunity to explore parts of yourself. Step out of your comfort zone and venture to different places as well as learn about their culture and people. This allows you to get more in touch with the beauty the world has to offer. So save up, and travel the world while you can.
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“Alone time is when I distance myself from the voices of the world so I can hear my own.” - Oprah Winfrey
