In a surprising turn of events, a 26-year-old man recently shared his eye-opening experience of dating in a post on an anonymous forum.
Little did he know that being in a relationship could be so financially draining. Within a mere 5 hours, his girlfriend managed to spend his entire half-year's savings, leaving him dumbfounded.
The man's story unfolded as he delved into the details of his encounter. He recounted how he stumbled upon an advertisement on Paktor, a popular dating app, which eventually led him to meet his now-girlfriend. Full of excitement and anticipation, he soon realized that dating could be an expensive venture, particularly when it comes to his significant other's spending habits.
According to his post, his girlfriend's insatiable appetite for shopping was unleashed during their outing. The spending spree began innocently enough with a visit to a department store. In a matter of minutes, she had splurged almost NT$20,000 (approximately RM3k) on skincare and beauty products, leaving him astonished at her swift decision-making skills.
The shopping extravaganza did not end there. She continued to indulge herself by purchasing two bottles of perfume and a bag brimming with cosmetics. As they ventured to the upper floors, she couldn't resist adding four dresses and a long-sleeved blouse to her growing collection.
Their shopping escapade took them to Muji, where she loaded up on cooking ingredients, snacks, and stationery. The man's hands were filled to the brim with her purchases, and just when he thought they were done, hunger struck.
They decided to dine at Din Tai Fung, but the waiting time allowed her to wander off and, unsurprisingly, return with a new pair of flats and high-heeled sandals.
It was not until they finished their meal, fatigue weighing heavily on the man, that he realized the true extent of his girlfriend's spending spree. And just like that, she had managed to rack up charges amounting to over NT$70,000 (approximately RM10k) on his credit card.
The financial blow hit him hard. As someone who diligently saved a significant portion of his monthly salary of around NT$50,000 (approximately RM7k), he never anticipated such an extravagant drain on his finances. The realization that being in a relationship could take such a toll left him dumbfounded.
His post struck a chord with netizens who empathized with his plight. Commenters flooded the forum, advising him to reconsider his role as an ATM and urging him to prioritize his own financial well-being.
"Are you sure she's your girlfriend? Isn't she just using you as an ATM or a tool?"
"Why don't you run away? She clearly sees you as an ATM. A woman who loves you would save money for you."
"Please wake up! You're not a boyfriend or a future husband, you're just an accessory, a human ATM."
"NT$70,000 (approximately RM10k) is just the beginning; there will be even bigger amounts to come."
While dating expenses can often be expected, it is crucial for individuals to find a balance that aligns with their financial goals. This serves as a reminder that open communication and financial compatibility are essential elements in any successful relationship.
