Besties, let‘s talk. 

We’re in the midst of Mercury retrograde and as the "tradition" goes, exes are bound to lurk in the corners, just waiting to pounce on their next prey. What happens when one of them actually reaches out? 

Here's what you should do.

1. Resist The Urge To Be Petty.

Yes, it'd feel incredibly satisfying to have the victorious last words, especially when the other party is in their moment of weakness. however, being petty hardly gets you anywhere especially if your goal is to move on. 

2. Think About The Consequences.

Think of what would happen if you do decide to reply to that text; how it's going to affect you. Entertaining texts from an ex almost never ends well, so why go through all the trouble?

3. If You're In A Relationship, Don't Entertain It. 

This one's a no-brainer, but you're obviously thriving in the arms of someone new, so any drunken texts from an ex shouldn't affect you anymore. At most, just laugh about it together with your current partner— it's more fun that way and it makes one hell of an inside joke. 

4. In This Case, Maintaining A Wall Is A Good Thing.

If the text does warrant a reply, think of how a robot would respond and get it over with as quickly as possible. Your attention is best averted elsewhere. 

5. Don't Fall For Their Tricks— Delete And Go About Your Day. 

Sometimes, the absence of reaction is the best of its kind you could give. There's a reason they're your ex— falling back into old habits will make your progress go to waste. Protect your peace!

Lastly, just remember that whatever comes back from the past serves nothing more than a lesson, and shouldn't be allowed to linger.