You may deem yourself in love with him, but does his energy match yours?
Vibing with someone on a surface level is not a challenge, the hard part comes when you dig a little deeper.
Does he have the same intelligence you have, or one better than you? If so, you're on the right path.
However, what happens when he can't keep up with you, emotionally? Here are 6 signs he is "too small" for you.
#1 He gets defensive, when you're explaining your hurt
Instead of understanding what bothers you, he is narcissistic and gets angry at you.
#2 He's always complaining
He constantly fails to see the good parts, the positives, the silver linings. He's just never satisfied.
#3 He sweeps problems under a rug
Instead of dealing with them head on, he opts to run and hide from them, because it's 'easier'.
#4 He's has an allergy to apology
Admitting he's wrong is foreign, and he doesn't apologize, ever.
#5 He breaks his promises
Promises are meant to be kept, because if not, why is he making them in the first place?
#6 He doesn't treat you like he is meant to
You're precious, and if he goes a single day in your life, not showing you that, then he isn't it.
Understanding if the person you're with is right for you in every aspect takes time and precision. But keep your eyes peeled, and who he truly is will shine through soon enough.
Should that happen, do not settle.
