Self-awareness takes time to develop. You can be an optimistic person or a responsible person, but having self-awareness is more than that.

Many people think they understand themselves well, but they are actually lacking self-awareness. To know whether you have self-awareness, you can check for the following signs.

1. You have a sense of responsibility

When things go wrong, many people tend to blame others instead of taking responsibility. But a person with self-awareness will not blame others because they know that blaming cannot solve any problem. Instead, they take responsibility and take practical action to solve the problem. 

2. You will not be taken for granted

There is a difference between a kind person and a person who is being fooled by others. A person with self-awareness acknowledges the behaviour of those around them. They are seldom fooled by others but they are willing to help others and act in compassionate ways.

3. You are realistic

Everyone has a belief in life. It can be something religious, or things you have read or heard. Although these beliefs can be a guide in life, a person with self-awareness will know that these beliefs are not totally true and they will not let these beliefs control them. They are the ones who have control over their lives.

4. You don't take things personally

A person with self-awareness understands that everyone has their own opinions. No matter what others say, they will not take these words to heart or let these comments control them. Instead, they use these comments to improve themselves.

5. You allow uncertainties in your life

It's important to make a plan for your life, but life is not a straight path and it is full of uncertainties. A person with self-awareness knows it and they try to control things that they can control, or at least keep them in good condition. They are also willing to accept opportunities and life experiences in life.

6. You don't just listen to your heart

Many people say that we should listen to our heart when making decisions, but people with self-awareness will not do it in that way. Instead, they are rational and weigh their thoughts before making decisions.

7. You know what really matters and what is truly important

 Self-conscious people know very well what is important to them. After understanding what is important to them, they will only focus on their own options, not what their friends or family think. Because they know these things will make them more satisfied with life.

"Self-awareness doesn't stop you from making mistakes. It lets you learn from the mistakes."