In a candid revelation, a boyfriend opens up about his growing insecurities as his girlfriend consistently expresses admiration for men driving luxury cars and superbikes, while he himself owns a Proton Waja.
Tak masalahnya aku pun akan insecure. I fucking hate people that does this.
— 哈菲择 (@MHaffizJ) June 8, 2023
Srs tak lawak pic.twitter.com/d8QWWdIts9
The girlfriend playfully jokes that given the choice, she would prefer those men over him.
Although she claims it's all in good fun, the boyfriend can't help but feel concerned about his self-worth and the stability of their relationship.
This issue sparked a discussion among netizens, with many sympathising with the boyfriend's insecurity.
One commenter expressed their frustration, stating their disdain for people who engage in such comparisons.
Ya if anyone does that kind of comparison is an instant OUT. You just know the person is never going to be satisfied.
— Ceddy (@CeddyOrNot) June 8, 2023
They emphasized that such behaviour demonstrates a lack of satisfaction and respect in a relationship.
Another netizen mentioned that they would also feel insecure in a similar situation, highlighting the importance of considering and honouring one's partner's feelings.
Ni namanya tak hormat perasaan pasangan. Laki ke perempuan ke kalau buat mcm ni, ask yourself, betul ke u sayang pasangan u?
— Elle Fara (@elle_fara) June 8, 2023
The incident raises questions about the boundaries of humour within a relationship and the impact such comments can have on one's self-esteem.
I would like to believe she wants to inspire u to be as rich/succesful tapi kalau selalu sgt macam tu..
— nasiheart (@shafikismail) June 8, 2023
Macam tak respect perasaan pun ada jugak.
While some believe the girlfriend's intentions may be to inspire her boyfriend to aspire for success, the frequency and nature of these remarks can be perceived as a lack of respect for his feelings.