Ok- serious question, are you more on the giving end than the receiving one when it comes to sexual pleasures? Because if you are, then, we need to talk!
Ladies, it's 2021 and equality also means your naughty business under the sheets. Your man has to return the courtesy for a happier sex life for both of you. Here are some red flags to look out for if your man is simply GREEDY in bed
1- No kisses during the hot sesh
Does he even love you anymore? I mean, kisses aren't just for turning you on! They are for building a deeper connection between both of you. So, unless it's a one-night stand, your man should be kissing & worshipping every inch of your skin!
2- No going down on you
He loves it when you orally pleasure him! But, when it's your turn, he often skips & goes straight into the action. Does he even ask or check if you're ready? Honestly- that's quite hurtful & insensitive.
3- He begs for sex
Not only it's super not-sexy, but he's also not putting in the effort to make you desire him and the intimate moments. Even worse, if he emotionally blackmails you to get what he wants! Never give in to that as your consent is your choice!
4- No romance outside the bedroom
There's literally zero effort from him when it comes to romance. I mean, he doesn't even try to make a physical or emotional connection with you at all. Where are the gentle touches, sweet nothings whispered into your ears, surprise dates, or sultry eye contact?
5- He doesn't know where your weak spots are
You have these spots that rev you up & turn you on during foreplay. If he couldn't care less about this, then, that's a big red flag, sis!
6- He's just a selfish & greedy person in nature
Those are just his traits around you or anyone else! He talks about himself a lot to the point you're uncomfortable! If he shows any signs of a narcissist, RUN!
Do you think your man checks off more than one red flag? Time for a long, deep conversation with him because you deserve just as much as he receives!