For 46-year-old Singaporean Suresh Vanaz, Thaipusam is more than a religious tradition it is a profound act of love and devotion. Every year, instead of carrying a traditional kavadi, Suresh carries his younger brother, Gunaseelan, who has cerebral palsy, on his journey to Batu Caves. This sacred pilgrimage is his way of expressing both his faith and his deep bond with his brother.
"Caring for him and ensuring his happiness that is my devotion and my offering," Suresh shared with NST.
For Gunaseelan, Thaipusam is not just a festival; it is a moment of connection, a time to feel embraced by a community that celebrates together. Though they initially planned to visit Batu Caves again this year, logistical difficulties made it unfeasible. Instead, they observed the festival in Singapore, cherishing the spirit of the occasion in their own way.
Despite the change in plans, Suresh remains unwavering in his commitment to fulfilling his brothers dreams including his wish to see the world.
"Gunaseelan dreams of traveling to Phuket, Europe, and many other places. I recently took him to India, and it was a test of my endurance. I carried him throughout our 11-day trip, and by the end, I was completely drained. But seeing his joy made it all worthwhile," Suresh recalled.
Their journey together has been filled with obstacles, especially in overcoming societal perceptions of disability. Growing up, they encountered prejudice, but Suresh refused to let his brother be defined by the limitations imposed by others.
"People often looked down on children like my brother, but all I ever wanted was for him to live life like anyone else," he said.
As Gunaseelan's primary caregiver and provider, Suresh works tirelessly to ensure his brother experiences a life filled with joy and adventure. His devotion is not just about duty it is a testament to resilience, selflessness, and unconditional love.
"I only pray that God gives me the strength and means to continue taking him on more journeys," he expressed.
Suresh's story is a powerful reminder of the profound bond between siblings and the sacrifices one is willing to make for a loved ones happiness. Through faith, perseverance, and an unbreakable spirit, he is making sure Gunaseelan's dreams have no limits.
Source: NST
