Sis, stop investing too much in the wrong person! Play it smart with some relational psychology like international speaker, Teal Swan does!
Just ask your partner these 3 trick questions before taking the relationship to the next level!
Make sure they give deep answers! Meaning, it has to be a thought/feeling from the mind or heart, instead of an obvious response!
1- What's their favourite colour, with 3 deep reasons?
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The answers here let you know how your partners views their own personality.
So, if he/she says 'dark blue' because the colour seems 'calming, powerful & reliable', then, that's what they see themselves as.
This will let you decide if bae is actually your type of guy/girl!
2- What's their favourite animal, with 3 deep reasons?
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From their answers, you'll learn what kind of traits they would like in their 'perfect mate'. Like if he/she loves tigers because they're wild, fearless & a good leader, but you're the entire opposite, you guys might have to talk.
But, if you're exactly what your partner describes, then, congrats! That's a match made in heaven.
3- What's their favourite form/ body of water, with 3 deep reasons?
A form of water is like snow, ice, rain etc. As for a body of water, it could be a lake, the ocean, a bottled water, or even the toilet bowl water.
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This one tells you how they view their own sexuality.
Let's say he/she answers 'a lake' for being deep, open & relaxing, so you'll know how he/she is in bed.
You can even make your sex life steamier by incorporating naughty ideas based on his/her preferences.
So, there you go. You'll get straight, fast answers with this game cause' your partner has got no clue what he/she is actually responding to!
Credit: Teal Swan