We are used to seeing older men dating much younger women and didn’t feel anything wrong about it. But what about mature women dating young men? People seem to have more problems with this kind of relationship.
It is quite unfair as mature women who date younger men have to face more judgment and curiosity as age should not matter in a relationship.
Love is love. The connection is still strong despite the age difference when 2 people are really in love with each other.
WHY DO WOMEN DATE YOUNGER MEN?
1. Women felt more youthful dating younger men
It is unfair to say that all women who date younger guys are trying to recapture their youth, but spending time with someone who has a less entrenched lifestyle is pretty comfortable. Younger men tend to live more freely as they are not tethered to family obligations. Therefore, women felt that their sense of adventure is recharged as if they have returned to their youth while having younger men around.
2. Women felt less of a burden
Not to be disrespectful to the older men out there, but seeing a younger man is less of a burden for a woman in her thirties. This kind of relationship allows them to be free from certain rigid beauty standards that they might feel restricted to when they were younger. That is to say, they are confident enough to show up in front of their toyboy lovers even if they don’t look perfect that day and the man who is just beginning to forge his own career path will not seem to mind that.
3. Women felt more admired by her lover
No matter she is in her early thirties or forties, a woman at this age has her own established career, interesting stories of what she did in her past years and maybe even well-raised children. She has lived, she is wise. All these impressive stuff will dazzle her younger partner and he might just fall for her more.
WHY DO MEN DATE MATURE WOMEN?
1. Men felt loved and protected
A mature woman knows how to offer her man space, devotion and herself. The love and care the younger man receives from his mature girlfriend/wife are addictive to him. As she has gained wisdom over the years of life, she is able to give him useful advice to build his confidence and self-esteem, making him a better person.
2. Men felt more mature
Women are more serious in a relationship as they age. This makes the man of her choice thinks of himself as a more responsible and reliable person.
3 Men are more impressed with their mature partner’s interesting life stories
Mature women are more seasoned. They have lived, and they know better. Being with a mature woman sometimes gives man a chance to have deep conversations that stimulate intellects which both enjoyed and appreciated. This, they cannot get from a younger woman as she is probably too focused on small issues in life.
