A single post in a local Facebook group by a Man from Kedah has ignited a fiery debate on the tradition of giving "duit raya" during Hari Raya Aidilfitri. The post, shared by a father whose identity remains undisclosed, featured a simple image: a few sampul duit raya each with RM1 tucked inside.
In his caption, the man expressed his disappointment and frustration over what he deemed as inadequate duit raya given to his children. He lamented the seemingly small amount, emphasizing that in the current economic climate, RM 1 holds little significance and fails to uphold the spirit of generosity synonymous with Eid celebrations.
Furthermore, the man called out the adults responsible for such gestures, suggesting that they should feel ashamed for their lack of generosity, especially considering their supposed financial status. He pointed out the irony of individuals who boast about their wealth yet offer trivial amounts as duit Raya to children.
Taken from Twitter
The post swiftly gained traction, spreading like wildfire across social media platforms and sparking a wave of reactions from netizens. While some echoed the sentiments of the frustrated father, expressing solidarity with his stance on the matter, others took a contrasting view.
Among the dissenting voices were those who argued that duit raya should not be viewed as an entitlement but rather as a token of goodwill and blessings. They emphasized that the essence of the tradition lies not in the monetary value of the gift, but in the spirit of giving and spreading joy during the festive season.
Additionally, critics of the viral post cautioned against adopting a sense of entitlement and urged for greater appreciation of the gesture, regardless of the amount given. They emphasized the importance of gratitude and humility, highlighting that duit raya is a voluntary gift and should not be demanded or expected.
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Source: Twitter