Can Men And Women Maintain A Platonic Relationship? Malaysians Weigh In And Share Their Honest Answers

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Can Men And Women Maintain A Platonic Relationship? Malaysians Weigh In And Share Their Honest Answers

28-Jun-2022
By Ayunie

Question: do you have a best friend of the opposite gender?


How's that working out for you so far? For some, such a relationship dynamic often straddles on a dangerously thin line and one or the other is bound to catch feelings eventually. 


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How true is this statement? We've asked a few Malaysians regarding this question and here are their honest answers:


1. Subra, male, 28:

"There are a few variables to consider? As a hopeless romantic, when I develop a connection with someone it's hard to view that person as just a friend. So personally, I don't think so kot."


2. Nur, female, 24:

"Of course. I think for us women, it's so much easier to view a man as a friend than vice versa. We view them as a human being worthy of companion, while some of them only view a woman as someone they're hoping to eventually hook up with, or at least have feelings for."


3. Balqis, female, 20:

"Yes, why not? Although from my observation, men tend to have hidden motives when they pursue a friendship with a woman, unlike us. When we call a person a friend, we wholeheartedly mean it, men or women."


4. Fariq, male, 30:

"I have a few female friends, so yes I do think it's possible. But I'm not gonna lie and say there never was any sexual tension."


5. Lee, male, 27:

"I think depends la. I have a girl best friend I've known since childhood and no joke would die for her. There are also other female friends I have that I'm honestly attracted to, but won't make any moves since I kena friendzoned."


6. Tiffany, female, 23:

"Of course possible, for us women la. Some guys will either confess to you eventually or stop being friends with you once they get rejected."


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Looks like there are some varying opinions on this topic, depending on which gender you're asking. Personally, what are your thoughts; can men and women become friends without it ever developing into something romantically else?


Share with us your thoughts!

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